Every girl dreams of being a bride on her own fairy tale wedding. As I grow up and take on adult responsibilities, realizations dawned on me that it is not practical to splurge most of our hard-earned money for a one-day event. Yes, it may be one of the most important days of our lives, but I cannot bear the thought of spending half a million bucks just for that. I just can't.
Before I begin, let me clarify that this is my opinion and I truly respect the opinions of others who'd rather have grand weddings. Many believe that it's a once in a lifetime event, which is true, and worth-splurging for. Dream weddings vary and do what makes you happy.
Now that I am clear with that and hopefully no bride-to-be's will bash me, I will begin...
Last year I bought a condo unit and, of course, I am paying for its amortization. With that being said, I do not have the liberty now of splurging on unnecessary things. I grew up being money-wise, thanks to my mom. I usually do not splurge on expensive things even if I have money to do so. I have never in my life experienced being "broke" or short of cash because I always make saving a priority. (Plus the fact that I do not pay for rent, food, power bills, etc. right now) With a condo unit I am paying for, it would be impractical to do a really expensive wedding.
Luckily, I have always imagined my wedding to be a small one, intimate rather than grand. Surrounded only by our closest family and friends. That's my dream wedding.
Three principles I am sticking with:
- Spend on what matters
- Maximize your budget
- Creativity is the key
